It’s crazy how the world is changing and yet stays the same. People always ask for validation, to be love, to be accepted .But now with the existence of the social media this sickness is becoming worst.

We post a picture of ourselves and we wait impatiently that people click “like”…We write something about our day and we wish someone post a nice comment.

We want people to tell us how perfect we are, how amazing we are, how beautiful we look. In this campaign for validation and love we forgot that the best love and respect we can have is the love of ourselves.
We forget to impress us even if it’s mean to be rejected by other. Even if it’s mean we have to let go some people in our life.

I am guilty …guilty of asking for love and validation guilty of forgetting what makes me happy, guilty of begging for respect.

Until one day I work up and I realize that even though I did a lot in my life I was never really proud of myself even when I was say it ( because it look good to say that )…I wasn’t proud . I always wanted to be perfect in the eyes of the world.

Don’t strive for perfection …Fight for happiness. You will never be perfect in the eye of the world so just be proud of who you are and what you create even if it’s not perfect.

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  1. Hello Sabine! I discovered you through your series 13 Witches. That need for validation is a nasty trap. I’m guilty of begging for respect as well. Very good post and I can’t wait to watch more of your show!

  2. This series is really eye catching. I love to watch. Waiting for season 2

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